post creation from answers.
I wish to create a post with support of you all, friends on marriagebook. Write below what quality you look for in your husbad/wife. Bachelor's too can participate with their views on future arena.
All answers will take form of a blogpost, with links to their blogs at my google pr.2 blog, marriage book.
Here we go, start pouring in the ideas. Humanity needs it.
@Rio, he should be tall, fair, good-looking, filthy rich and manageable 
Thanks Pankti, That was to the point and well calculated ones.
Yes, that too. It would be like icing on the cake
Ranjith Pankti wants Iron Man and Carlos Slim rolled into one
VP, I wouldn't mind that combo 
Let's start the work of mixing Iron Man and Carlos Slim in a grinder. 
Rio............. I was wondering whether high school boys are welcome to pour their fantasies or not??? [restless smile]
Though I don't see much choice for boys in the years to come with increasing gap in gender census of male and female. One has to be happy with what he gets.
Rio welcomes high school boys also with an open heart but they must take permission from their wives first.
they'll sing and GO BRAZIL
Ranjith, "wives" one having many or respective wives individually.
none seemed interested with vengaboys [alas!]
Reminded me of true incidence of a German who had joined Iskcon society, and very much impressed by the hindu system of wife thinking of husband to be God and touching the feet of husband. He went back to Germany and asked his wife to touch his feet so he would bless her the heavens, he got divorced that day itself.
So do you still wanna go Brazil Anunoy.
who wants his feet to be touched??? [sarcastic and mixed smile]
So you mean business bro., that is, full toos ready to accept the challenge to get married.
[frustrated smile].... nahhh... you're in another pole broda... better we'll talk it over some lemon juice when I return...
Got the point, dada;
['yesss' now i frustrated you!!! wala achiever's smile]
I am frust proof now, Anunoy, you know why, [ sheepish wala grin ]
['ohhh how could i miss that' wala loser's defensive smile]
To gain something you have to loose something. Ye philosophy bahut kam log jaante hain dada.
The more you loose, the more you gain.
Rio I would like a wife who looks and earns like Marrisa Mayer, has a figure like Pam Anderson thinks like Mother Teresa
haha
VP if she will think like Mother Teresa what is the point of Marrisa's looks and Pamela's figure? 
Let her think like MT I will enjoy the other two 
btw pamela had two figures, one before surgery and one after
Thanks Rio maybe lord will listen to your wishes and grant me a boon
ND I liked the before one better
Aww you are being selfish you already have what you want now let us get our wishes
OHH sorry you can have all the dippy you want bro but I want this supe combo for me
Can wait for 60 years if you guarantee me the above
pam will grow old by then and have wrinkles
ND Rio will ask God for the trio to remain the same for me for 60 years
And Rio got your point but I have heard a antithesis of the above. They say the second heart attack is better then the first one because you know what your heart needs
VP: You want Marrissa Mayer, Pamela Anderson and Mother Teressa combo? 
Yes PM I am a very principled man so I follow what my website is named after
@ Vijay Don't you want masala dosa combo ? ( masala dosa + 1 idli + 1 vada )
P.S. I know I'm talking t oo much about food these days. 
should be taller than me, should have good sense of humour and i have a big list......... can't write it all
You want a modern day Goliath and Charlie Chaplin (two in one)
Who it he
Aditya Roy Kapoor....not bad k2
And who the heck is he
k2, BTW, I love his physique
No but heard he is a sharabi. You want a Alcoholic 
@Vijay Nahhh.........he's not dat much alcoholic and moreovr i totally agree with you Pankti.........he's owsm in looks
Better to marry someone who loves you rather than one who you love. (I know I know but this is true).
Good looks are the most hyped quality in a life partner and they mean just nothing.
correct 1000%
Rio, please introduce me to him
k2, nah...but I would like to meet this God's gift to woman 
Rio, how can you die to marry someone? If you are going to die anyway, then why marry?
Rio, I never understood this term
k2, you are right. At least I don't think I will be ready to die for anyone....alas, what is more important than my well-being? And if I ever behave like that, I think my true friends will indeed take me to a psychiatrist.
because we all live in real world where money mattrs...................... than comes love
Yes k2. Unfortunately, money is mostly at the root cause for marital discord.....
He should be a man not a boy, man of his words, man enough to care and take a stand. And intelligent with good sense of humor. The one who truly lives his life
Ankita, then you will surely remain single if you are looking for this kind of man 
rio 
at ur last sentence
Then.. I shall remain single...
Well, you will surely find one.
@Ankita most men are boys and stay so their entire lives. (ducking to dodge brickbats from the men/boys in the forum)
@Rio is that because you are the initiator of this thread and hence feel a sense of responsibilty and courtesy toward the contributors or because what I said about men/boys is true? :) sach sach bata do please.
Indirectly everybody likes a combo which God never makes I guess. If you see the replies everybody wants a all in one piece except for Madhu who spoke with certain realism. (but I doubt God manufactures love anymore)
i only want KOI combos
Not too many expectations. Just someone who understands me and can put up with my quirks. And a couple of lines for that lady
You can dance.. every dance with the guy.. who gives you the eye.. let him hold you tight..
You can smile.. every smile for the man.. who holds your hand.. beneath the pale moon light..
But dont forget who's taking you home.. and in who's arms you gonna be...
So darling.. save the last dance for me
Beautiful Shri. Poetic justice is what you seek and thou shall get it
woooooOoooooo.............. owsm Shri
complt justic to ur future wife
Shri.......awwwwwwwwwww...............so sweeeeeeeeetttttttttttttt........................still, what is your bank balance?
Thanks VP. Thanks K2. No deny Rio. But this fog of time dont show me what is nigh. So shall wait and watch.
@Pankti.. shoo.. Sab maya hai.. Bank balance se zyaada dil bada hona chahiye.. btw
there are 6 zeros either in front of or behind the lone non zero digit.. with or without the decimal point..
Shri....lol
Beautiful lines
Hmmm romantic @Shrikant. i hope the lady appreciates your patience.
I'll think about this question in my sleep today and come up with an answer tomorrow.
Interesting to see what a IITian want for a future spouse. Will keep my eyes peeled cause I may have something to post. Tech + Marriage looks good
Or maybe I will make a guest post on MB if Sir Rio allows me
today is the tomorrow you talked about yesterday, now give all ur answer
@ Nadini You should be patient. Do you think that I will be missing my classes to give an answer.
@ Vijay I am not a big fan of tech. And IITians are just like anyone else. If I write a post about IITians, half of the post will talk bad things about them.
I think you already have my views in that post "How I stayed a bachelor" in marriagebook Rio :)
Sure bro. That post attracted highst number of visitors and comments.
Shows the number of people who want to remain single I suppose :)
Someone who agrees to get married outside when its raining. Also, breakfast with this person needs to be enjoyable.
Its holy, doesn't that mean rain-proof and everything-proof? 
My husband should be a huMAN rather than just a MAN!
Marriage is the proverbial 'ladoo' that everyone wants to eat.Those who eat it repent and those who don't hanker for it.
Still walk into it with your eyes open knowing that you are relinquishing control over your life. (Debatable point with pros and cons, I am aware.)
Try to stay away from people who display their money and are rude to people who cannot answer back due to whatever reason.
Madhu, what if you aren't sure if you want to eat it? It's like sometimes you hanker for it and many times you run from it.
Hmmm...so in short, you don't become "Dhobi ka kutta, na ghar ka na ghat ka." Wise suggestion.
@Pankti, i suppose you could get engaged to someone and delay the wedding ad infinitum. Then you will have the laddoo in sight but no compulsion to eat it. ;-) What say?
@Rio, cent percent correct. Par in singletons ko kaise samjhayen?
Lol Madhu....fabulous idea
[ kane wala ladoo @Madhu: Abh kabhi kabhi yeh singletons' will power can last long - I am 50 and still not hankering for the ladoo :)
Let that day come for me Rio then we will talk :) Abh kitne shaadi shudhdha hain jinhone samjha ki apni dream spouse mil gaya aur tha zindagi rote rehte hain jinka main ziqr nahin kar raha hoon aur aap ek iklota dost ka namoona pesh kar rahe ho :)
It is indeed true Rio who one wants the shackles of early marriage now a days
I think a lot of it is community specific. Traditionally marwaris try and get their wards married as quickly as possible. (talking through my hat. Anything to not do any real work.)
@ Rio That's a good way to escape. But it feels equally good to get married and have a loving wife at a young age.
Note : Young doesn't mean Annunoy's age.
or Ranjith's age.
I knew beforehand the actual purpose of this thread [I know it all wala wicked smile]
[i wish i told something...!]
......and what is that @Anunoy? Hamen bhi toh pata chale kya ulterior motive hai. Don't hesitate, tell us. Rio will not mind.
wo Angelina jaisi ho... buss itni si khwaish hai [at the height of impulse]....
Ssshhhh promise me it'll be a secret... mohollewalon ko pata na chale [wicked smile wetting the corner of lips]
@Anunoy, You mean she should take you away in her self piloted jet and introduce you to her six children? Nice, very nice.
oh I missesd... Brooke Shields would also do.... [blushing]
Pad suno bhailog ye baat indiforum k bahar nahi jana chahiye [caution]
Madhu why i felt you pulled my legs [confused]?
Aap sahi samajhe Doc. Could not resist.
don't do these kind of things Prof... don't you know young bones tend to fracture easily [apprehensive]
don't do these kind of things Prof... don't you know young bones tend to fracture easily [apprehensive]
rio dont forget to publish my smiley on ur blog and give a back link to my blog
ranjith is copying my idea, so my smiley n backlinks should be above his smiley
Don't worry Nandini. Rio will insert 100 smileys and backlinks for each of us.
With osteoporosis (wrong spelling may be)?
noooooooooo.... that is reserved for retro guys... [grrrrr...]
ROFL
Now, I wish i had paid attention to @Avadhoot's tutorial on smileys and knew the one where one rolls on the ground laughing. I would have totally used it here and saved all these words.
Trying just now. =))
madhu why don't you try to give words to your expression and put them in a bracket... it's quite satisfying... really! [I'm the guarantee wala smile]
@Ranjith, doesn't work. What am I doing wrong?
@Anunoy, yes. I prefer words. (Majboori ka naam Mahatma Gandhi)
@ Madhu =)) will not automatically convert to on teh forum. It happens only on IndiTalk. You will have to copy paste the image to use it in the forum.
@ AS After a few days, you will write the response using brackets like :
[ madhu why don't you try to give words to your expression and put them in a bracket wala question mark smiley ] [ it's quite satisfying wala smiley ] [I'm the guarantee wala smile]
Yay! ho gaya. @Ranjith,@Rio thanks.
@Anunoy, I like to learn new things too. so for now this one is ok.
Ranjith:
I thought that I'll have to stay awake the whole night to come up with an answer. But then, I remembered a scene from a Telugu movie. The heroine ( already married to some other person ) asks the hero about his plans for marriage. He replies saying that it should happen all by itself. You can't marry a girl just because the stars have matched or that you are being given a handsome dowry. The same thing for me. It should happen. What I think is the perfect quality today may not be so tomorrow. When you find yourself in unconditional love with a person, then you already have a good match. Anything may happen in the future and your preferences may change. But the marriage remains successful.
P.S. Part of the second half of the above paragraph is from another Telugu movie. But I too have the same opinion.
what a deep philosophy in such a tender age [salute you rajni anna]
philosophy inspired from telugu movie....masala dosa to that
All the best @Ranjith.
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